BDSM Whips

“Treat me like I'm a bad girl, even when I'm being good to you, I don't want you to thank me, you can just spank me...”. These verses are taken from ‘Hanky Panky’, a song that Madonna wrote about her whirlwind romance with Warren Beatty. A real ode to a form of pleasure that is not as alternative as some may believe. In fact, several Chinese sex manuals (the Chinese are trailblazers in many of these things) claim that a little pain which is expertly administered increases both the potency and the intensity of the orgasm. The history books are full of devotees of this sexual practice — from the Etruscan frescoes that portray men and women being whipped while engrossed in acts of oral sex; to Hollywood legends like Jack Nicholson (or 'Spanking Jack' as he's sometimes known), who loved chasing his lovers around while armed with his favourite ping-pong paddle.

A whip is an essential accessory if you want to get started in the BDSM world.. Spankings are neither sexist nor cruel. They appeal to our most basic instincts. They're one of the purest forms of pleasure. The helplessness and voluntary surrender, the excitement of taking on a new role, the overpowering desire — all of these make whip-play a real erotic art. The boss and the secretary, the teacher and the pupil, the prisoner and the guard; or the landlord and the tenant who can't pay his rent — so must be punished. Prepare yourself for the power games, the nudity, the pleasure and the pain, the panting and moaning — a potent mix. Crack your whip and let the games begin.

The best BDSM whips for spanking

Leather, rubber, synthetic vegan leather; short or long; with metal glass or wood handles — there are so many types of BDSM whips out there. At EroticFeel, you'll only find the very best ones on the market. Sophisticated, sexy, elegant, and made of the finest materials — they're much more than they seem. Why don't you try a collar with a leash that turns into a whip? What about a flogger that's so soft, yet so firm that it provides you with everything — from the most delicate caresses to the most forceful and severe lashes?

How can I use a BDSM whip?

Having sex on a train and a enjoying a good spanking in private are two of the most common fantasies — and it's no coincidence. It’s a matter of rhythm. And that's the secret. Find your rhythm by starting slowly and gently. Gradually increase your speed and firmness as you hit the right spots and spark the excitement. The BDSM world is immense, and you can spice up the experience however you like.

With your hands restrained by Maze handcuffs and wearing a blindfold that heightens the rest of your senses — you are their complete mercy. The whip will first brush against your naked skin as your partner tells you to get in position. Do it. Soon, you won't be able to resist anything — the pressure on your body, the sweet pain, and the glorious pleasure. How long do you think you’ll last?

Is it safe to use a whip during your sexual encounters?

Why wouldn't it be? Any BDSM practice should always be safe and consensual and, of course — you should always apply your common sense. If you're the type that sticks your fingers in plug sockets just to see what happens, maybe it isn't for you. The buttocks and the thighs are the most suitable parts of the body to spank (with care). Never spank other more delicate body parts, and always agree on a safe word before you start.That's a word that when said, ends the game immediately. By following this advice, using a whip in your sexual encounters will be perfectly safe.

What is a BDSM flogger?

If you're just getting started with BDSM, many terms might be unfamiliar or confusing. Let's try to clear up one of the most common ones here — flogger. It comes from the word 'flog'; which is the general term for spanking or whipping. A 'flogger' is an instrument used for erotic flagellation. It's basically a whip with several tassels or ‘tails’ as they're sometimes known.

If you've made it this far, you're ready to start an adventure that's as exquisite as it is exciting. Take your place on the starting line and keep up the pace. Don't you want to know what's waiting for you at the finish line?